Has anyone actually been successful convincing their husband/Significant Other to actually talk to their doctor about ED, testing their testosterone levels?

I'm seriously on the verge of leaving my husband because our sex drives no longer match AT ALL and it is driving me up the fucking wall. Especially lately because sex helps relax my muscles and I have the worst pelvic girdle and round ligament pain now that I'm 30 weeks.

He's open to talking about it with me but push comes to shove he will not talk to his doctor.