My husband works a lot out of town. His last work assignment away has been these last 4 months. He is coming back tomorrow and I have a lot of resentment towards him. I want to send him a message to tell him to not talk to me when he comes back.

Because if he does I am afraid I will snap at him. I am not resentful for his job. I am resentful for the following: even when he gets back home he always manages to have an excuse as to why he cannot help out.

This time he was away I developed a health issue and despite this I took l care of our toddler. But it was so difficult. I told him I will really need him to step up when he gets home and what happens?

He broke his hands. I am like how did you do that? How? How? How? So now I will have two people to take care of, while I am sick myself.

Do you think it is a good idea to tell him to simply not talk to me when he gets home?

I have tried talking to him before and it makes no difference. I mean he went and broke his hands. Seriously. Who does this?