A little back story. Me and my boyfriend will be together for 3 years come January. We’ve been through a lot and there has been cheating involved. We now live together.

He has changed a lot and I’m always thinking it could happen again. We both work from home and he’s in refinance so he’s working nonstop. And on the weekends we spend a lot of time together. He has a daughter who I love and adore she calls me mom. (Her mom is ok with it. We’re a blended family). I’m always stuck in the past and honestly he wouldn’t even have time to cheat. I wish this wasn’t our story but it is. Im in therapy and it doesn’t change overnight, but I wish my brain would just stop overthinking. Any advice you guys have? And non judgmental because I know how you girlies are 😉