My husbands job is destroying our marriage. Car dealership of course. We never do anything. Never have dates. Never any us time. I barely see him. So many wasted days & he barely sells 5 cars a month. He actually had a day off today but he’s at work again like always. He already has to work a week straight with no day off this month. The managers schedule them like slaves. He lives at work. I’m always alone with our 2 kids. Half the week, all four of them. I have 2 other kids from my 1st marriage. Ages 6, 4, 1.5 & 2 months. Not easy at all & I’m burning out. He works on his days off & that’s scarce as it is. We never have a day together. A few hours leftover at night if that. This is our life & the system has made us stuck in this repeat cycle. It’s affecting my mental health as well. Something has to change. I’ve suggested a different dealership maybe it’ll be better with sales in a different area. He wants to wait. Try a different job, but we gotta have a certain amount in savings first which right now is nothing. Cost to live is crazy high as we all know. We haven’t been to Church in 2 months & barely before that for months. He’s missing so much of his kids growing up. It’s not his fault with how finances are, I just wish it didn’t have to be this way & we could actually spend time together. Wish he wouldn’t have gone today and just spent his 1 day off with us. There’s no balance. No prioritized time for us. His only priority is work. Everything else is on the back burner. But that’s what sucks about working off commission. I’m feel like I’m just existing & going through the motions with my kids now. Yep it’s depression I know. It’s reached that point.