So I’m due with my baby girl in may 2023. I want to name her Penelope and there is no other name I’m in love with like this one. I have struggled and had my babies though <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a>. I lost 2 baby girls in 2019 and 2021 and have been wanting this name since then but nobody knew that. My husbands first cousin that I never see and we don’t know her 3 kids but we have her on Facebook has named her baby at the end of 2021 Penelope.. and it made me cry because I can’t give up this name..

we live in a town right next to them. And see them randomly around sometimes..

Do I message her on Facebook and tell her all of this and let her know I didn’t steal the name I just couldn’t go without using it?

Or do I just announce my babies name when I’m ready and not say anything??

I definitely don’t want her to be mad or hate me.

What would you do??