I’m really struggling

Al

Al

Iv been having sex regularly for about 5 months now. Before that I was having sex about 3 times a year at the most with the same person. I met some new people and we started to have sex regularly for the past 5 months.

I had sex 17th November and took a plan B… even though I am on birth control. Please don’t say that it was stupid. I know what it does and how it works.

I had sex again 22nd November. Didn’t cum inside me, taken birth control regularly.

Had sex again on 12-2-22. Didn’t cum inside me, taken birth control regularly.

My expected period is December 4th…

I am making this post because I am so confused about how I am feeling.I’m slightly scared I could be pregnant because of how I am feeling but it seams too soon to be having symptoms. On 11-24th I got really sick and I am still sick as of today. Feverish, dizzy, runny nose, sick to my stomach. It has been two weeks now and I still feel the same but have not been to the doctor because it will cost too much. I worked 2 days last week and have been going to school full time while sick. I have become so extremely dizzy and sick to my stomach. I’m scared that it could possibly be pregnancy but at the same time it could be the weird sickness. I am extremely emotional and really depressed right now. I feel like I’m dying and have no control over my emotions. How can I feel better about everything? How can I feel better sick wise and mentally ? I will not have sex for a month. I have been so sick I can hardly walk right or open my eyes. The dizziness is crazy. I feel so out of control physically and mentally. What can I do ? I have work this coming week. I work blue collar job 4 days a week 6 hour days, go from work straight to school until 9 pm… can somone please give me idea on how to feel better.

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Ha

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You might be over working yourself and too stressed out, which could explain feeling so sick. The likelihood of you being pregnant is pretty much none, you're on birth control, he didn't finish inside you AND you took plan b (which was unnecessary and will mess up your cycle). You said you go to school, is there any chance you could talk to a counselor about the worry and stress you're going through? Also is there a school nurse you could see to check for flu and any other possible illnesses? I know every school is different, but both the community college and state university I attended offered these services free of charge whether you lived on or off campus, as long as you were a current student.

Al

Al • Dec 5, 2022
Thank you ! I was sick with what my partner had from Two weeks ago. But I’m also have other symptoms which is why I was worried. I think I am over working myself and stressed out. I could talk with my counselor at school this week. I do feel like I need to sort some things out that is going on.

ab

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Only way to know is if you test if you’re pregnant or no.

Al

Al • Dec 6, 2022
I got my period.

Na

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My goodness, this sounds awful. I’m so sorry you’re feeling so sick. You sound like you may actually be ill with a flu. Get some rest and hydrate girl! Whether or not you’re pregnant - you need to take care of yourself first. Give yourself some love! ❤️ Feel better soon.

Al

Al • Dec 6, 2022
I am feeling a little bit better now physically. I did get my period today thankfully. I am going to take a long break from sex. Mentally I am not doing well at all. I feel very depressed and drained. I have had a LOT of anger and it’s turning my relationships with those around me. I don’t know how to control it right now. I feel guilty for being around people. I am having a lot of “MOM” guilt and I think it is caused by how I have been feeling recently. My niece lives with me, I helped raise her from day 1. She is 4 years old and it’s so so hard right now. I notice that when I’m not happy I’m angry and rude and just want to get away from her WHICH causes her to become angry and frustrated. I want to show her happiness and have great times together but it feels so impossible right now. I’m depressed about it right now. I feel so so guilty for how I am behaving around her and it takes all I can to not cry when I’m around her. I want so badly to just be happy and have a good time around her but my mental health is so bad off right now I don’t know where to start.

Ti

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Have you taken a test yet?

Al

Al • Dec 6, 2022
Thank you. I did get my period and I have decided to take a break from sex right now while I work on my mental health. Thank you

Ti

Tionne • Dec 5, 2022
Like the comment above said you may just be stressing on top of you take then Plan Bs which do mess your cycle up. If you’re uncertain and wanna ease your mind just take a test. You got this girl!

Al

Al • Dec 5, 2022
No not yet