My last relationship was toxic as hell, it ended so badly. I’m in a new one where everything’s great he’s amazing, he’s nice, he listens, does things with me, gives me things, and overall just not my ex. We do get into arguments at times tho but unlike my old relationship, I don’t hold grudges for as long as I would (mainly bc my ex wouldn’t acknowledge his wrong and apologize only when he felt tired of arguing). With my new relationship, my grudges only last an hour tops as to my last, they’d be for daysss. He knows what he did wrong and knows when to apologize and make up for it. 2 nights ago though, we didn’t argue but we had plans and he basically ditched me without saying anything until he came home later that night. We talked about it that night but that’s just it. We talked about it & didn’t resolve the issue or anything. I always wake up earlier than him and shoot him a goodmorning text but the morning after, I didn’t and he asked me about that. I told him why and he asked why I was still upset when we talked about it already and I just didn’t have an answer besides “we didn’t really talk about it” so then he tells me I have to communicate more so eventually we talked about it 😭. Now I just feel so bad cause it was really that simple and I feel like I do things that sabotage the relationship when there’s no need