Idk if anyone can relate. But after I hit the 1.5 year mark of trying for a baby, I got so depressed and obsessed over it all. And then I turned 36. Everyone around me was getting pregnant (literally everyone, I’m not kidding) and all the people on the TTC forums were getting pregnant (I was the last one still trying). I started therapy but that doesn’t seem to have helped me…

I had a friend who just told me the other day that she won’t be talking to me as much until I’m over my infertility. She said she isn’t leaving but just won’t be talking to me as much….

Prior to this, she had cut me out of her life for 10 years because of her “abusive husband” and we only became friends again 3 years ago because I reached out - I’m only adding this for some back story I guess. She’s supposedly happy with him now. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I feel like it’s really shitty to tell someone you will only talk to them when they’re over their problem. Infertility is like grief. You wouldn’t tell someone who lost someone close to them “I’ll speak to you when you’re over your grief” would you?

Idk… I just feel so angry I’ve not even responded to her.

Thoughts ?