For those of you who are actively trying to get pregnant, do you tell your significant other about the negative tests?

My husband and I are trying to have another child. It took us 2.5 years to get pregnant with our daughter. We ended up conceiving naturally. It’s starting to look like it’s going to take sometime again. It’s just not easy for me to get pregnant. I’m 31 and only been pregnant once. I say that because I can’t even remember the last time my husband and I used any protection. Honestly, we should have a ton of kids the way we’ve been careless over the 14 years we’ve been together 😆😆😆…….Our only child is six. I’m trying not to break down and seek help, but it looks like I’ll have to. I just can’t go through the emotional disappointment like last time with every negative test.

I took a test today and of course it was negative. My husband was at work. If it was positive, I was going to surprise him in a cute way. I debated on even telling him it was negative because I knew that he would be more disappointed than I would be. He’s been wanting more kids for so long. Every time I get my period I see the disappointment. I ended up texting him that I took a test and it was negative….He was disappointed….I think from now on I won’t even bother to tell him that I took one if it’s negative.

Do you tell your significant other about negative tests? Or do you don’t even bother to mention it?

I realized I ranted a little. Thanks for listening.