From sneaky link to relationship 🥴??

Myra

Need some advices from some lovely ladies

Me and my sneaky link have been messing around since The beginning of August. We are both college students , I’m a senior and he is a freshman. At first I wasn’t really trying to give him the time of day because he is younger than me and he just start college. I’m only older than him by 2 years but still. The Sex is very thing but a few things to work on but the real problem is over the last couple months. He has been tellin me he wants to take things serious like a relationship…..

We had a talk before because he felt like I don’t really fuck with him fr (in his words). Basically feel like I’m using him or don’t just care about him at all. He was tellin me how there is ppl in his dms trying to be like how we are together. He says he only wants that with me. And how he know it be dudes trying to be on that with me as well.

i honestly think a relationship won’t be best because I’m about to graduate and I’m going back home to Cali when I’m done most likely. He says that’s not a problem because he can fly and all that but it just won’t be the same honestly. Like I would to like be able to call him and can he pull up when I need him.

I almost wondered how does he want a relationship with me when all we do is have sex. We don’t even know each other deeper than the surface.Don’t hangout besides that or just honest chill in each other presence. It’s just strictly sex…..apart of me wants to be in a relationship since I never been in one before. But it’s just his actions don’t act up to his words. I don’t want my decision to affect the sex but it might and that’s what I don’t want to happen.

Im honestly looking for guidance….. should I have a heart to heart conversation? Or just leave it strictly sex ?

I honestly think I’m feeling like it’s a conflict because this my favorite sex partner 😭😭I can’t lose that. Because I know I probably not going to find the same.