Hey guys I just need opinions because I’m so confused.

I will list reasons why he may or may not.

So ive know this guy for years but we on and off talk every few months. We used to go out in a group clubbing and whatnot and used to get with eachother ( just make out, never had sex) Recently we caught up and it was meant to be just us but he has a best mate that he sees every single day and he invited him after a bit of hanging out alone (1st reason he might not) then he invited me the next day to go to his family beach house with him and his mate for the weekend.

I met his parents and they were so lovely and even invited me to come back again.

And his mate would make comments about “third wheeling” so surely he’s mentioned something about having an interest??? I dont know!!

We had a rly good time but hes really shy so we hardly got a chance to talk (his mate is loud and very talkative) we are both shy and reserved so was hard to get a word in.

I spent the night and was in bed with both of them- awks! And we both couldn’t sleep just kept staring at eachother, so he asked if I wanted to go into another bed with him, throughout the night we kept making eye contact but neither of us made a move. In the morning he started to spoon me and cuddle up to me. Confusing.

The next day he would tease me a little and put his hand on my back when he would pass by- little stuff like that.

Also when we are in a room together he constantly makes eye contact with me or I’ll catch him staring.

We always seem to have this thing but nothing happens.

He’s also extremely “frigid” with girls and finds it hard to make moves or show he likes someone. According to his mate.

He’s blunt over text- never really has a conversation, apparently that’s him with everyone (according to his mate once again). But when we are together I feel like there’s something but I don’t know if I’m just trying to find something.

He’s openly said he liked me months ago but then we stopped talking but it just stays there and I don’t know how to get past it.

How can I take it to the next level or should I leave it?

I don’t really want to be the one making the effort anymore.