Im not asking for others to buy my big items?? Why cant i have 1 list with everything that i need?? Its my list, with stuff i plan on buying MYSELF... idk why people here think i want them to give a whole paycheck or more for me??? Dont think so low of people

Hello everyone. This is my 2nd baby, i havent told any family yet and am struggling with the idea of telling my side of the family. They are very negative and narcissistic people. My husband and i are currently struggling and i know i wont hear the end of it from my immediate family. Other than that i dont have anyone to tell or who can help me.