So, there’s this girl I’ve known since 4th grade (we’ve graduated years ago) anyways, ever since we’ve been friends she’s always had shady stuff to say to me but I kind of overlook it simply because I’m the type of person that don’t get close to females for the exact reason of what she does but I try to hold on to her because she’s the only female friend I’ve kind of trusted and been close to for this long. Anyways I’m gonna throw out a few scenarios of things that have happened over the years that make me feel some type of way.

1. We ended up falling pregnant 2 weeks after eachother years ago, she came out and told me as a surprise then I surprised her (neither of us knew the other was pregnant so it was surprising for birth parties) soon as I told her & congratulated her, first thing she said is “Well I know my baby gone be cute cause I’m cute and the daddy cute” Like what was the purpose in saying that? 💀

2. My boy bestfriend of 6 years and I had got matching tattoos(each others name and a heart that has the infinity sign and “through thick and thin” in it), she ended up seeing it and she said “Y’all must married or gone have kids” in a trying to be funny way(she know he’s my bestfriend” my response was nah, he just been there for me through everything and he deserve it, I wear my heart on my sleeve” The following day she had asked me to go to the store with her, I guess she looked at the tattoo again and this time she tried to be hella funny she said “Well, I might as well go get so & so name tatted (her ex that cheated on her and gave her a disease and other stuff) keep in mind she has a fiancé, like why would you even say that? Are you saying all of that is meaningless or something and trying to make me feel low of myself for getting matching tattoos with my Bestfriend?

3. Last week I had posted a video of my baby enjoying his bubble bath with his toys on Snapchat and I was like “He love his bubble baths” and of course I covered him up, instead of me putting an emoji over his parts I put two fingers in front of the camera, covering him and there she is “I’m hollin, why didn’t you just put and emoji right there” I said because that’s just how I like to cover him, I feel that’s more secure in my opinion and I had also posted videos of him brushing his teeth by himself, he had even put his tooth brush under the water when it was time(he’s only 1 doing that & I’m proud as hell of him) and then once I dressed him I posted videos, keep in mind she didn’t respond to any of that but wanted to respond to the first video to try to be funny as usual)

4. I got my baby’s face tatted when he was about 5 months and when she seen it first thing she said is “Look at that spot, (was talking about the bald spot that was in the front middle of his head) that’s why imma wait to get my baby’s face tatted” she didn’t say it was cute or anything, that’s literally all she had to say like girl what? Anybody with sense would know when baby’s are months old they lose hair, nobody is focused on that, everyone say the tattoo is cute, it looks just like him and they ask me who did it. She just always have negative and slick things to say and it’s crazy cause I’m nothing but nice to her, motivate her in all she do, I’ve even bought her baby things and she never came to get it cause I guess she’s the type that don’t want anybody to be able to say they’ve gotten her daughter things…

Another thing that stuck out to me is when she seen this girl we went to school with working at Wendy’s and she texted me and said “I seen so & so, she said hey and I spoke back, but in my mind I was like that’s why you working at fast food and I work for the government (the post office)” like girl, I don’t see anything wrong with someone working fast food, it’s like this girl is in competition with literally everybody and y’all know what? She wasn’t even working at the post office, she was lying!

This isn’t everything that has happened, these are just things that have stuck out to me. Anyways, would y’all speak yall mind, continue to be friends with this person or just stop talking to her all together? I’m bout fed up.