Im a senior in HS (17) and so is my boyfriend. We're allowed to leave campus during lunch as of last week, and last week we with his friends to a sandwich shop. Today he asked me if I wanted to go with him off campus tomorrow, and I said sure! Where? And he said just to have sex in his car somewhere and not eat. I said I wasn't in the mood because it's so cold out and he always turns the car off when we do that- I'd be freezing. But to be honest I just didn't want to. I asked him if we could just go get food and he acted confused and said no he would just go home during lunch. This made me upset, which I expressed, because it sounded like he would only go out with me if I had sex with him. Which he firmly denied. After a lot of thinking he said that he wouldn't waste his mom's food at home and go eat food elsewhere. I asked him if his family ever eats leftovers, and he was like yeah but it's better fresh. And I asked what he would've done if Id agreed to have sex and he was like idk make up an excuse? So I said why don't you just make up an excuse and go have lunch with me? And he was like no she'll see the charge in my card. So I said we could just go hangout somewhere instead. He said he didn't know, which is his way of saying no without reason. Do I have a right to be upset about this? It really feels like all he cares about is sex. And he's constantly groping me and pulling my limbs forcefully towards him like I'm some ragdoll even though I've told him to stop. It's getting so irritating. We've been dating for over a year btw, and he never used to act like this I don't think. At least it wasn't as bad.