Hi, so it’s been about three years since I’ve last had sex and since then I haven’t masturbated with penetration. Meaning I never used dildos just vibrators. It’s not that I didn’t like it I just didn’t crave that feeling so I never did it. Cut to three years later and I bought a rabbit vibrator after wanting to experience that feeling again. Problem is, it’s very painful for me to actually use it. Even more painful than when I lost my virginity and I didn’t think it was possible? I’ve tried two times now, and each time I’ve been relaxed and even come a few times beforehand so that way my body was fully ready, but it’s still very painful and can only get like three inches in before I tap out.

I guess my question is, is it possible after not having sex for awhile for my body to get acclimated to not having anything inside and just find it too painful? If so, what are some ways to overcome it, if it’s even possible? I’ve been trying to just leave it in and get used to the feeling and it’s gotten slightly less painful but still not what it should be. Please help as I don’t really know who to ask about this particular question.