Hello,

Since I was little my mother tried to make me wear clothes which I felt uncomfortable in it, also she often did my hair and would never cut them shorter which lead to me having long hair till my waist or hips. When my parents dicorced, I stayed with my father and he always made sure that I should wear clothes which I feel comfortable with. Now being 27 years old, I wear my hair since many hair short that he almost reach my shoulder and would still wear comfortable, be it jeans, shirts etc. And I noticed since having contact with her again at 21/22 that she asks ne why I have my hair short, that I should let them grow longer or she would whenever I visit her give me judging looks or asks why I wore this dress, I should wear more tight clothes because I am a woman, I should wear more make-up you name it. Why does she seems so obsess with my appearance? She gives me the impression to never to good enough as a woman