So my S/O Adult sister wants to use our kitchen to film her YouTube videos. I don't really have an issue besides the fact that she refuses to give me notice when she wants to film. I've asked her many times to just give me 1 days notice so I can be sure the kitchen is clean and blah blah. I have 2 year old Twins, the house is not YouTube ready the majority of the time lol. She'll ask if she can come the day of, sometimes the kitchen is ready, I say yes then she won't show up. Then today she tells my S/O that's she's coming in an hour and doesn't even let me know anymore. The kitchen is no where near clean and It's irritating, am I over reacting?