For those who have had stillborns when did you start trying for your rainbow baby? I had a stillborn baby girl last week at 22 weeks. I have 2 sons and was so excited for a girl, I do want another baby but desperately want another daughter. I think my solution to this might be not finding out the gender if/when I get pregnant again. Because I know once I’m holding my baby I will be thrilled if it’s a boy or a girl. But if I find out the gender during pregnancy and it’s a boy I can see myself getting very sad. What do you guys think?