Was in a relationship for almost 6 years. One son and one angel daughter. Dumped me exactly a year after dating. Went on a date with another woman while I was home with our 6 week old son while also battling depression. Dumped 3 days after our son birthday just to find out he was cheating for 2 months still tried to make me believe it wasn’t tru because he didn’t physically sleep with the person til after 2 weeks of sleeping with me then dumping me.

At this point I’m sure our friends are tired of hearing me cry and be treated like I’m not an amazing person. I have got to the point that I just stop telling them because I feel like I’m bringing bad energy to their lives.

So many times I hear “he lucky” “he don’t know what he has” and yet it’s taking me now to see how bad things are. He is a womanizer who tries to keep an image he believe people will accept. He doesn’t care what’s appropriate. He so called has another best friend who is his 20 something coworker. Remind you his other best friend who is a female, he use to be fuck buddies with, didn’t find out til months in relationship. Which he slip up and said.

After the break up I find out his new best friend have been talking constantly at night for 30-90 min conversations or super early wake up on the dot conversations. This apparently was going on behind my back the entire time. She even came to my son birthday party dresses up as a unicorn and all around our family and friends. Now that we have broken up I believe he is screwing her. He didn’t even come home (we have lived in his house for years, trying to move out but literally just became a nurse) she was the last person he talked to that night and the first he talked to that following morning. Before breaking up I plead my case and said everything was inappropriate. Which I had been saying for months. He even got in trouble at work because the rumor went around about them. I cant win. I just give up. He believes everything they do or talk about is okay because he isn’t physically fucking her. I just want to confront them both and take my peace because I’m sick of it. He has showed me that his friendship with her is more important then a relationship with me. I use to be such a nice and kind person and I feel like everyday I become less.