I have this Bestfriend of 6 years and he never wants to spend time with me. I say that because it’s like if I don’t ask him to come over, he won’t come over and if I do, if he do come, he’ll come late. For example, he came over this past Sunday I had called and woke him up at 11 something that morning so we can get an early start cause we planned to eat and have drinks at my place and he hadn’t been over for about 3 weeks he says “you finna be mad at me” I said what? He said “I don’t have no clean drawls I gotta wash” I said ok he didn’t come until 5, almost 6 that evening and I assumed he was gonna spend a night since we hadn’t seen eachother in so long so, around 9 I asked him was he spending a night he was like “nah imma head home” another time we were supposed to do something he told me he didn’t have any socks and that was why he couldn’t come because he had to wash but all of it isn’t making sense to me, he always tells me he’s washing his clothes(sometimes he brings that up as the reason as to why he has to go home) and not only that, most of the time his mom washes his clothes but it’s always petty excuses like that as to why he say he can’t come, then, Monday he talked about getting some wings and when I called to remind him because he always acts like he forgets things, he said “Let me call up there to see if they got them out” the place had literally just opened and they always have the wings out because that’s what most people buy, anyways he came back to the phone and said they didn’t have them, I instantly clicked over and called to see if they had them out and the worker told me yes so I clicked back over and I was just like if you didn’t wanna get the wings you could’ve just said that and he tried to play it off by saying ahhh I don’t wanna hear that, I wanted some of the wings too so why wouldn’t I get you some but why would you lie ( and keep in mind I didn’t ask for these wings he offered to buy me wings??? 🤔🤔🤔(You’ll just have to know how he is to understand where I’m coming from) then when we do be otp, if I don’t make conversation then we’ll just be sitting on the phone breathing. It’s just like all of this is getting played out, I want friends I can spend time with, be on the phone with & things. He doesn’t have a girlfriend so that’s not the reason for all of this cause I know some ppl may say that. Anyways, when I was living with my mom previously, he was doing this same thing then. Always acting like he didn’t want to come over, then when I moved to my own home ( I’ve been here 4 months) he has only came and spent 2 nights since I’ve been here like dang I have to admit I be lonely because I have 2 ppl I consider a friend & the first one we only talk when we’re going out to do something so yea & then there’s him. I just feel like I don’t have anyone to talk to at times….. I really just don’t like how he has been acting toward me because when I speak on these things he tried to act like he care “You know I’ll come spend time with you” or something like that to try to get me to shut up. Then I could be venting to him and he says the same line “Them be the worse ones right there” or he don’t be listening to me.