My husband and I were talking about something and the topic of getting off came up and he goes to say “ since I have to ask to get off that’s why I don’t get you off” 🙃 he won’t willingly have sex with me because he doesn’t want me to get pregnant again since we never go to my appointment for birth control which is fine I guess. I also now keep track of when we do things so I don’t wait to long before I ask if he wants to get off so he doesn’t get pissy. I have gotten him off 30 times since I’ve had our son (September 6th) and he hasn’t gotten me off at all. I do understand it’s my fault and if I didn’t want to do it I should tell him and all that other stuff.