I have told my husband multiple times we need to do more forplay. Because by the time he cums i am just now getting blood circulation to my clit. I even stopped using my toy because i become more sensitive when i don’t use them but he still never does forplay and he doesn’t last very long. So i eventually had to masterbate because i was so sexually frustrated. Which frustrates me that i even had to masterbate. I kinda don’t want to have sex with him anymore because i find it pointless for me. We have a great relationship but when it comes to sex we struggle alot. Idk what to do just needed to vent.