I told a guy I have been speaking too for 3 months I’m free to meet up at 3 pm, since I couldn’t this morning.

He said alrighty

3 pm rolls around no message from him

I assumed he was busy and reached out at 5 and asked how his evening was

He said I gotta finish up what I did today tomorrow in the rain

I said I’m sorry to hear that

No response

At 9pm

I asked if he was upset with me

He said I’m sleeping

So should I of reached out at 3 pm or should he of???