Hello I am a first time mom and I need some help on when to do something’s my daughter is 14 months old ennis has 7 teeth is about 30in long and weights about 20ibs. She walks and climbs on the couch to sit with us. She signs some with us as well but not a lot of words other than mama, dada, and butt (my moms sings “change your butt” while changing her diaper)

When to move her to a toddler bed?

She eats at her crib I have covers on it but she moves them and gets wood in her mouth.. do I buy a new crib or a toddler bed?

When to forward gave her carseat?

I heard wait until their 3 years old but that feels really big to me

When to feed her meat?

Couldn’t before because she refused to chew ANYTHING and would just choke on it.

When to stop using a bath seat?

I read online stop when they learn to stand up is that true or should I use it till she grows out of it?

When to let them walk while holding hand (like at the store)?

My mom says I should hold her hand and let her walk into walk mart that feels wrong seeing as she’s so little and does not ever want to hold our hands while walking

When to potty train?

Also read I should start potty training her but also read to wait for the signs which do I do?

When to put a pillow/blanket or lovey in bed?

I heard you can at 1 yr but I’m scared of suffocation because she lays in fetal position face down arms tucked under her.

Sorry this is so long just have so many people and sites telling me different things though I would come to the expert moms out here for some advice.