So me and my bf been dating for 4 years now his family talks about me behind my back they say I don’t clean after him i don’t cook for him wash his clothes or nothing I’m not showing wife duties but the thing is he lives with his mom and siblings I’m not doing nun of that in his mom home now I do help him clean his room and help him cook and help with his laundry but it seems like they want me to serve him and we not even married I don’t care if they don’t like me but it’s just like why not mind your business where both 23 for one every on in tht house is 30 and up they have the mindset back in the 50s or 60s. If we where to move together yeah I would be doing that I’m really not suppose to be doing it till we married but I like doing stuff for him I’m just not going to please his family they told him they don’t see me doing it but he tells them all the time she does that she’s just not going to do it in front of you. I’m just ranting because I’m just tired of it why does our relationship bother them so bad