So I hooked up with a guy I’ve been dating for a while now, this was our first time doing this together. He’s huge, the biggest I’ve ever been with so I have a couple questions.

At first, it was hurting a bit, it was hard to get in and he was hitting my cervix. But after a while and once I got more comfortable, he wasn’t hitting my cervix anymore even though he was going all the way in. I know the cervix moves up during arousal but how many inches exactly? This guy was at least 8.5 inches and so I’m just wondering if that’s safe to let him go all the way in as long as I’m not in pain.

Second, although we only had vaginal sex, my anal area (I guess that’s what I’d call it) is feeling really sore especially when I try going to the washroom. Is this normal/safe? I just can’t find answers anywhere else so if anyone has experience with a really big and girthy partner pls leave a comment, thanks!

Note: im not a virgin! It was just my first time with him specifically!! Sorry if that wasn’t clear lol