So when I was like in my 20s, things would turn me on like I need to be punished and I’m such a bad girl 😈

I am 37 now and stuff like that doesn’t turn me on. I don’t want to have sex like I’m in a porno

Anyways, this guy that I’ve been talking to for the last 3 1/2 months that’s how he likes to have sex is like he’s in a freaking porno he wants to do everything when we’re together finger me go down on me, give him blow jobs anal sex vaginal sex

I was supposed to meet him this morning and I was 80% ready until I got to text daddy’s gonna have to punish you for being late. I immediately put back on my pajamas and turned on a movie.

I have tried to relay this to him, but he doesn’t seem to get it

This man is 42 years old and still wants to fuck like his parents are going to be walking in the room any moment or like he’s never had these sexual experiences before

Stuff like that does not turn me on anymore I don’t need you to finger bang me and eat me out before you fuck me 🤷‍♀️

You can eat me out for five minutes or so and then fuck me but I really don’t need you to shove your fingers into me when I get off and make me lick it off your fingers

sure it would be one thing if it was just a little bit of dirty talk, but everything he does is just aggressive the dirty talk is aggressive. The sex is aggressive, the finger banging the wanting to eat me out me giving a blow job doing all of that. Every time we have a sexual encounter I don’t want to feel like I’m in a porno.

Personally, for me, I wouldn’t care if he would be like. Oh, you’re such a bad girl while we’re having sex and pulling my hair and spanking me but to keep it going and going and going even after the sex in the floor we have sex is just way too much that’s all it is is sex. Talk with this guy.

I mean for the love of God, he asked me right as soon as I was getting ready to go to sleep, if my pussy was going to be throbbing all night

Like ummmm no???? I’m going to bed I’m tired 🤦‍♀️

Did your sexual preferences change as you got older???