I need to know if im being too sensitive…?

My boyfriend (23m) and i (20f) recently moved from the home we rented together into his dads house. I didn’t anticipate any crazy changes to our routine or life, i thought we’d just be able to save more money and see his family more often. We’ve been dating for two years and i felt confident in our relationship.

We’ve been with his dad for about a month now. In that month, my boyfriend has really pulled away from me emotionally. We dont really talk, and when i talk to him he just doesn’t respond or react 90% of the time. His dad made an effort to sit me down and tell me that i need to let my boyfriends family handle my boyfriends problems and that i dont need to be involved in it. Ive tried talking to my boyfriend about how this is making me feel isolated and unwanted, he just got quiet and a little judgmental. It made me feel like a bad girlfriend for wanting a personal life with him outside of his family.

My boyfriends had upper abdominal pain thats bothered him for a while. When we lived alone, id always bring him anything he needed, rub his head, and support him anyway i could with it. He seemed to enjoy that support and wanted me to do it. I even offered to call and make an appointment for him to be seen, but he never wanted me to. As soon as we moved, hes having his sister make him appointments with doctors, he isnt telling me about the appointments, hes taking his sister with him, and not telling me anything about how it went after even when i ask and offer him my listening ear. Its not about jealousy with his sister, i just wonder why i wasnt good enough… why all of this is happening now…

I could go on and on about the things hes said and done thats hurt my feelings. I have no idea what to do now that im two hours away from my family. I cant pick up and leave all of my furniture and things. Am i being too overbearing?