I have a 3 year old and I'm pregnant which hasn't been the best. But I do what I need to do. My husband made a comment one time when I was feeling horrible and he said that I was milking my pregnancy. I mean I went to the er 2 times that month and he apologized but then yesterday I told him I couldn't handle a certain smell of a candle his mom gave us and if we could compromise and he said that it's because his mom gave it to us thats why I'm being like this. She was rude to me and he had her back 24/7 and to be honest I don't have a problem with her anymore. He can't get over it and then he said that I use my pregnancy as an excuse for everything. I mean I've been going through it. Even random hives for no reason. Anyways my mom and siblings got covid so I went to bring them some stuff. I haven't slept in forever and I mean 7 am is sleeping in for me and he took care our toddler in the morning. Then I had to get ready to be able to get back early so I could spend time with them and get stuff done around the house. He was saying how I didn't help him. Story of my life. Even when he's here. He sleeps in or is on his video game and him watching him he usually puts the tablet on which ok that's fine. But I get home after running around and could barley catch my breath before he asks if I wanted to take our son outside. I said I need to use the restroom and get settled in . The video game was on so he was playing the whole time I was gone. Then he decided to tell me... you know we all need a break. He gets his breaks. He does what he wants. Just because he helped me make him lunch yesterday and did my morning routine today... doesn't mean he doesn't get breaks. I'm just so irritated. If I were to express myself to him even politely. He'll probably say something to excuse him. I'm so frustrated and tired and I'm just done with the whole mom guilt thing. Because if I do the same thing he does. My intentions are questioned as a mom or a partner. And it isn't fair.