So, last night we met in his house. We talked and stuff and everything was nice.

He is normally more romantic and sensual (?) when it comes to sex but this time i felt like it was like a duty more than a passion.

He kissed me out of nowhere, a little to no foreplay, I went down on him (i took control which i usually do and he likes it) but he just didn’t do anything this time (he usually takes care of me after i take care of him)

He was probably tired and he has a lot in his mind but if he was not in the mood why did he initiate sex and then did nothing about it? What should i think about it? I can’t really ask him because when i do he says that everything’s fine or just doesn’t answer and change the subject.

(English is not my first language im sorry if i couldn’t explain right)