Is there something wrong with me if I’m still single after using dating apps for so long?

In February 2020, I downloaded bumble. I matched with a guy who was extremely my type. A man with long hair and a beard, rocker type. He seemed so keen sending long messages. And we were about to meet but lockdown hit, so we talked for 6 months over text until lockdown was over. When we met, we went on a few dates (but I had to plan them all) and had a nice time but he ghosted me. He just stopped replying and we never spoke again.

I was gutted and took it personally. Let myself get over him until July 2021, when I matched with another man on a dating app. Again, my type, not as handsome but we had amazing chats and connected over text. It was exciting and in person when we met, we just clicked. However AGAIN I had to plan all the dates and he just went along with it. we became a couple and I was just so happy. I really liked him and I put the effort into our relationship.

We dated until march 2022, when he broke up with me out of the blue. Saying he was with me out of loneliness.

I’ve been on the dating apps since and I just don’t know what’s wrong with me, as I’m just not finding anyone I click with.

I’ve been upset today because a guy I clicked with stopped responding. I thought he looked nice and we had similar values. I rarely find men on there sexually attractive, it’s like 1 in 100 men for me so when I get a message, I get excited. I’m attracted to energy so men that ask lots of questions, witty, funny etc. if he does reply eventually 3 weeks after me sending message, should I respond or move on? Does it mean I’m second choice or should I give him a chance

But seriously, must there be something wrong with me to still be using dating apps 3 years after I started using them? I’m so embarrassed and scared about my future prospects. I don’t want another 3 years to pass and still be swiping.

Feel like my time will run out