TMI.. delete is not allowed..But How long do you think sex is supposed to last?..

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How long do you ladies think sex is supposed to last.. 
i hear so many women say to an hour or 30 minutes 
but some say 15-20. 
usually when me and my spouse do the deeds we don’t last long probably about 20 minutes or 25.. so now im having mixed feelings Like im not attractive to my spouse or i “turn” him on but i always heard the shorter the better sex is because who wants to last super long having sex but now i dont know now i feel insecure because idk the average minutes is normal for sex if your enjoying it.😭 like we both super much enjoy it but i dont want to ask him every-time was it good or something

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I honestly don’t pay attention to how long it lasts and I don’t think there should be a set amount of time. I think as long as both people enjoyed it, that’s all that matters

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You are way overthinking this. It doesn’t matter how long sex lasts if it’s good and you’re both enjoying it.

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For my husband and I it is typically 15-20 minutes, but there are times where he cums as soon as he sticks his dick in 🙄 (he does spend time with me afterwards at least lol) and other times he could last literally all night and I'm just like dude, I'm sore you gotta finish soon 😂 both of those situations are outliers though, not our normal time. It's usually 5-10 minutes of foreplay and 5-10 minutes of intercourse for us to both orgasm. Oral sex and anal sex are a little longer for us, I'd say between 30-45 minutes when we do either of those.

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We never have sex lasting longer than 30 minutes. Usually it's around 15 and we're both plenty satisfied. I hate long sex.

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It lasts until we're both finished and satisfied, whether that's 2 minute or 2 hours. Just depends on us.

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I prefer like 30-40 minutes normally last like closer to an hour though. The length of time really has nothing to do with if someone enjoys it or if they are attracted to you etc. My boyfriend lasts so long because he jerks off normally at least once a day with a super tight grip and he is out of shape so when it comes to actual sex he is normally out of breath/needs a break/water before he can finish.

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As long as you and your partner want/need it to last.

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When my partners and I do a scene, it’s typically 1-2 hours, sometimes a little more. We do about an hour of foreplay before actual penetration and it can last for awhile. One of them is able to orgasm multiple times and when the other gets tired they just use toys until they aren’t as sensitive. 
It’s up to you on how long sex lasts. For some it’s 10-15 minutes. For others it can be hours.

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I would prefer longer than 15min. Bt then again I always get inconsiderate partners. Mostly wake me up while I’m asleep and by the time I’m alert and ready they finish which is like 5 min.

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I could not have sex for 30 minutes to an hour lol. I bore easily. Sure I like to take things slow sometimes but with kids we don’t have the luxury of that. So we’re used to it being a bit rushed. I’d say the max it usually lasts for us, start to finish is 10 minutes. And that’s because we’re both in a rush to get our rocks off before the little cock blocks, I mean kids, interrupt 😂

TMI.. delete is not allowed..But How long do you think sex is supposed to last?..

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