My boyfriend recently got suspended from work for being late so often … I decided to get up in the mornings turn on the heater and make his coffee to motivate him to get up . I’ve been doing it for a week now .

Yesterday , my 1 year old ended up having a ruff night so I might’ve not heard the alarm . He woke me up and told me to make him his coffee cause he was late to work . I rushed up to make the coffee but I didn’t like to be woken up as it if I was obligated to do so . He got really mad and said “ fine I’ll just never ask for help anymore” . I told him I had all intention on doing this but I didn’t want to feel like I was obligated . I also said that when I have to get up and get things done I do it , and that his job was his responsibility . .