Told my fiancé I don’t want kids past 31

We only have 4 more months of trying until I’m 31, is that too harsh? Anyone have any thoughts? We’ve been “trying not trying” for almost a year. It took me 4.5 years to get pregnant with my son… I’m getting nervous.

I took a test tonight and feel like I see something… anyone see it or am I crazy?! 🤪 any thoughts would be appreciated. Please be kind.

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Sa

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I think that’s completely up to you the reason why. But I will tell you it is over rated when experts advise 35 and older is high risk. That’s not exactly true as you can have complications at any age. I am 35 with my first at about 20 weeks and I can’t say what is to come, but these 20 weeks were a breeze and anatomy was fine. I have also have also had significant health challenges in the past where I didn’t know this was possible. Like I said this may not even be the reason but don’t let the complications thing scare you! It did for me for about 4-5 months before I wanted to even get when I wish I had tried before. My diet was on point so that might have helped. Good luck to you either way! Just thought I might add that, but again if this isn’t the reason then just ignore me haha

Sa

Sarah2980 • Dec 19, 2022
So in very short terms yeah I think you are being too harsh; give yourself grace will lower the stress of this has to happen now sort of thing. 💕💕

ma

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I said I was done at 25. Then decided I was done at 31. I had one at 31 and 33. No difference

Ca

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Having babies later in life is more common, you can definitely have a healthy pregnancy