22fhere, not a minor.

I don’t have many friends in the kink community but I’ve always been very interested in it. My current partner and I have clicked very well in the bedroom but I’ve been the one teaching him about everything and introducing him to things. He absolutely loves most things and has recently realized he likes a little bit of pain in the bedroom. He likes fingernails and biting. He *like likes* back massages where it’s focused on the “painful” problem areas. He does really like overstimulation if that counts.

I was wondering if there’s things we can introduce to the bedroom to add that element in other ways?

We don’t mind toys but he might get overwhelmed if it’s something really intimidating. Definitely nothing like whips. Maybe something small? Or another action I can do?

I tried to do online research but i mainly get “what to do if sex is painful” when I try to look it up 😅