My husband goes soft during sex?

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I am hoping someone can make me feel better. So my husband within the last couple months keeps going soft during sex and or can't finish. Like literally inside me thrusting and then goes soft. I ask him if something is wrong or if it is me and he always days no but it is making me very insecure. I know he has no problem when he masturbates and so I just keep thinking he isn't attracted to me anymore. He is only 43. Is this normal? What can we Do?

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Mines 27 and it happens sometimes! He says if he focuses too hard he’ll lose it 😂 it’s not you! There’s 100s of different reasons. He can always see  his doctor if he’s worried and ED

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Does he have any health issues like diabetes high blood pressure or sleep apnea? Meds could effect it too specially anxiety medications but is very common after 40 if it continues you can’t use viagra or other ed meds to help him out

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Yea this can happen sometimes, to any man of any age, but it’s more common in middle aged & older men. I experienced this twice (so far) with my now fiancé, who’s 48, almost 7 months ago… At first, I felt just like how u feel, because it was the first time it’s happened with me/us as a couple. And, with me having body insecurities, my mind just automatically went to it being due to something wrong with me… but, he reassured me over & over that it wasn’t me at all, and that he’s had that happen before in the past. There’s a number of reasons why it could happen that have nothing to do with u. But, if it starts happening frequently, then he should definitely see his doctor, as it could be erectile dysfunction (ED) or some other medical reason.

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Could be porn addiction or ED. Sometimes men get so addicted to porn that without watching it they can’t stay hard. Since you mentioned he doesn’t have this issue while masturbating, maybe that’s the issue? 
I would suggest he sees a doctor anyway though incase it’s a medical issue. 
Don’t feel insecure. I guarantee you, it is NOT you.

My husband goes soft during sex?

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