Boyfriend and my family

Mandii

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years . After the 2nd year he noticed my family didn’t respect me in the way they should . He hasn’t wanted to be involved with them ever since and I get and respect that. But now it’s affecting me and the kids missing out on the holidays with him because he doesn’t want to be around any one in my family. What should I do? I feel like im in a constant battle .