my significant other has expressed to me that the amount of messages I get on social media of people hitting on me, or "trying to get at me" makes him very uncomfortable  because just about two years ago I was entertaining someone online and i regret everything. I never sent this dude, naughty pictures, or ever talk to him sexually but honestly in my mind, it was even worse because I would tell him how much I didn't want to be with my man and how much I would rather be with him, and that I want a new life. (This isn't what i really wanted) to this day I'm trying to take accountability for what I did but it eats me up inside that there's no going back and I really really feel like I try to do everything in my power to prove my loyalty and make it up to him, but I am only human, and I find myself getting angry with him for normal relationship things, or even just normal human things, and I will make me feel extra guilty about what I did in the past and make me feel like I shouldn't get on him about little things at the house, but I don't want to back into a corner with a tail in between my legs and let him control everything I do. I absolutely know I was in the wrong, and he absolutely did nothing to deserve this, I'm dealing with my own traumas as well, and he has helped me endlessly through them, and I can tell he is my soulmate.  I don't post pictures of myself on social media anymore, and I even went as far as to delete my entire Instagram other than pictures of us together. we thought we had healed for this, but lately he let me know how it still bugs him and I feel like people messaging me is so out of my control I can only control how I reply back, and if I block them… Which I do!  he really isn't controlling and didn't "make" me delete my Instagram or anything. I did it because I wanted him to know that I'm in it for life.  we are looking into couples therapy to get through the actual trauma, but I'm just wondering how I should approach this!? I'm really at a point where I just want to delete all of my social media entirely, and quit my online business that I run on Facebook.  it's sad that I feel like I have such a hard time giving up my "social" life when all I do is market, health, and beauty products on Facebook and these guys can't keep their dicks in their pants.