Hello! So I have this friend with benefits and he’s quite big. He’s about 8-9 inches with a pretty good girth. That causes sex to be so painful to me. It just feels like intense pressure on my cervix. Has anyone else had this? How can I make sex less painful with him?

Side note: he literally makes me take the whole thing and really does nothing for me when it comes to foreplay or getting me wet. He’s super aggressive with everything so I’m always torn and sore and he blames it on me and says “I can’t take d**k”. Honestly at this point I think it’s a problem with him and not me.