Hi all,

So The guy I’ve been dating for a month, I’ve noticed this past week he has had lack of communication with not responding back to my text. I text him today (after he hasn’t responded back to my text in a couple of days) and I just explained the importance of communication and how I feel that I have not been getting that (btw, the first couple of weeks communication was great, but it recently started to trend down on his end).

He then responded that he apologized and he’s not trying to be rude, but that he has been busy. This makes me uneasy bc the first couple of weeks, he was busy, but still made time and communicated.

I have yet to text him back bc idk if I should test him and ask him first if we are still on for next week (as we had made previous plans) as a test to see if he will say no bc he is busy… which will give me a clue that he’s not as interested as he was (as he always made time), or if I should just ask him straight up if he is still interested in seeing one another, as I don’t want to continue to waste time and invest my feelings…

I like to give people chances and I don’t want to jump to a conclusion, so what do y’all think I should ask?