okay so me and this guy “z” have been talking for a good minute, like we’re in that stage between friends and dating. i honestly love the way he makes me feel whenever we’re on the phone or on a date and i love the conversations we have but last night we had sex and it just didn’t feel like i thought it would. With other people that i’ve just hooked up with it felt kind of better because there was a lot of sexual tension but with him it just didn’t feel as good. Don’t get me wrong it still felt pretty but maybe it didn’t feel as good because he’s just helping my inner child heal first so i haven’t really had the chance to feel any sexual tension. Not gonna lie either, my ex really messed me up to the point where i’m scared that z is going to leave now that we’ve had sex even though he keeps reassuring me that he won’t. i just feel like a big ball of insecurities and issues right now. what should i do?