I 25F, has a daughter 6F I had her and raise her but my mom was always there like I mean if I move she follows me. So one day I lost the apartment because I allowed my mom to care for the home and she lost it, so yes I was struggling for some time to get back on my feet I had to strip and work at a fast food place to get where I am. So the time I was sleeping at a shelter my mom left out of town and I allow her to take my child because I didn’t want her to sleep at a shelter. By the time I actually got my daughter but it was too late she was already calling her mom , so I didn’t care I was 21, it didn’t bother me at the time and I understand they had to bond while I was struggling to get us a place. But after I moved into our two bedroom apartment after 7 months, my sister lost her life and at the time my mom was living with her also and since she wasn’t alive anymore. I was drunk off two bottles yes I was hurt I had to hear my sister died and I didn’t know what to do, I hug my mom and said you can stay with us for a little while. That’s where I fucked up a year later my daughter was still calling her mom and I said nope it’s time to stop calling her mom and yes I should’ve stopped it way way before it started, but my mom and aunt kept saying she knows who her mom is it’s completely okay to call your mom her mom. Like no I am 25 now it’s getting so old I am planning on moving in 2023 an hour away from my mother, so my daughter can break from that mentality. I understand that’s her grandmother but that’s it nothing more the reason why my mother is still at the apartment it’s because she won’t leave, oh I did move after I found my true love, we started our tiny family and got us a home but it’s only 2 minutes from my old apartment so yes we are moving so I can break this thing my mom put in her head. She manipulated me when I was young but I won’t let her keep doing it to my child.. An I the asshole if I move ???