Just wanting so advice and maybe reassurance!

We have been trying since July, fell pregnant in September but sadly lost that pregnancy. We have tried for the 3 months since and nothing and honestly starting to worry and feel upset..

But when they say 80% healthy couples conceive within 6 months … does this for me mean I start counting the months since the miscarriage or before? Since we did technically conceive in that time 🙈🙈🙈

Doesn’t sound too long but it feels like forever 😓😓

Thanks all!!