Didn’t go to Christmas Eve - IATA?

I am 9’months pregnant and I just didn’t go to my husbands families Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> party. I know my husband doesn’t care but his family may. They always have something to say. I am just trying to avoid big crowds due to flu and sickness AND I’m uncomfortable and ready to pop.

I’m not going to my families side either because of the big crowd at my parents since they have a huge party.

I feel like it kind of bothers my husband but I am seeing his parents tomorrow for Christmas to do presents so I figured it didn’t matter. I just want to be careful and make it to the finish line,

Am I an asshole??