am i wrong for being mad at my bf??

we have a 2 year old

my bf gets him some complicated ass electronic track for christmas that says 14+ on the box and then gets frustrated and doesn’t want to play with it with the baby because he’s not being “gentle” or “doesn’t know how to do it” he’s fucking 2 dude of course he’s not going to understand. i told you it was too much and you don’t listen!! then you don’t want to play with him at all with it and tell me to do it even though i just wanted to get him a monster truck regular thing