My husband has always been a bit on the rude side but since I started taking care of my health and have lost close to 20lbs recently, he’s really went overboard. He says things like “you’re losing weight and I’m gaining” “I hate how I look” “I wish my clothes fit” “must be nice to not want to eat” today he tells me that my dinner didn’t taste good —- it was chili that he’s ate a million times before. He literally sat it down and didn’t touch it again. He gets mad when I say I want 1 soda. Yet he has to get and eat a whole pack of Oreos by himself, gets mad if someone eats just one of them, then he SCREAMS at me and says crap like “if you’d stop bringing junk in here I could lose weight.” “You make me eat this stuff! You’re the reason!” Bro. I don’t feed you. You have the willpower to stay away just like I do. How is it my fault?? Everytime he or I go to a store he asks me to bring him skittles or something back. Told me to start telling him no. So I did two nights ago and he got mad that I said no as he asked. Tonight- one day after Christmas and we didn’t get to see much family due to ice, my daughter went next door to his aunts and came back with a small bowl of Christmas candy she had homemade for a gift. He went OFF saying she’s bringing “junk” in so he can eat it and “no one wants to help me lose weight” my daughters eyes got wide and she hid it so he couldn’t find it to “get fat from” then he starts screaming how he’s leaving me cause me and my daughter force him to eat (????) and that since she’s bringing candy in then she will be “300lbs” I told him she can’t decline a gift! That would be so rude after she handmade that specifically. I said I’ll just toss it and he yelled and ran upstairs cussing me like a teenager.

The past couple days he’s also said disturbing things like he wants to shoot himself and end it all

He will NOT take his lexapro! He will take it for a month and say he’s ok and quit cold turkey again! He worries about everyone but me and my feelings. I’m terribly sorry for venting but I have no one and this is driving me insane.