So I normally trust my wife right but she has just seemed like she has been acting weird lately with her phone. So while we were taking a nap, I ended up waking up and thought, why not check and see if there is anything crazy. I know going through someone else’s phone is bad but I just had to be sure. Anyway I checked all her messages and stuff and ended up finding that she has a kik live in the back of an album, hidden, I checked it and read the messages. She woke up after and I questioned her about it and she says it was messages to the person that molested her when she was 13 and then groomed her for years. All I wanted was answers so after that I had her open some hidden photo album things and found old videos of her with previous guys and stuff but idc about that so much as she says she forgot about them and plans on deleting them now, what is bothering me is that I said I forgive her for messaging this guy but yet she keeps saying we’re not gonna work out anymore just because I found the messages between her and him? I’m very confused and trying to figure out why she is saying this because I said I forgive her and that she didn’t message anything crazy to him, he had messaged her first in fact and was saying crazy things like wanting her to move in with him which she denied and said that she was happily married rn. I’m just trying to figure out, is she crazy for thinking, we’re done and trying to end our marriage just cuz of this?

P.s she said she messaged him because she sort of relapses from time to time needing his attention which she hates, also is there anything I can do for her?