I lost my twins in November at 20 weeks. Ever since then my mother has been very intrusive. She was at the hospital with me the whole time, she also took it upon herself to call other family members and invited them to the hospital before I delivered as well, without me knowing. Mind you I knew my babies had passed and would be born sleeping. She is my neighbor so she took off work to 'help me'. She took off over a week ! And didn't even help me .. I saw her about 3-4 times. She ordered a bunch of urn necklaces for her and my siblings, without asking, she also got one for me and my other half. I haven't filled them. I had mentioned getting a tattoo in their honor, and now shes talking about getting one and sending me her ideas.. not to mention her co-workers gave her a card she kept telling me she was gunna show me and I've never seen it and haven't heard anything else about it. I don't understand why she's acting this way. And she took over 30 pictures of my babies in the hospital !!!!!!!!!! I don't know who she's sharing those with and everytime she's out in public she has to bring it up to whoever she sees. I just don't get it. Am I just an asshole ?