I'm currently almost 11 weeks postpartum and my little boy is an absolute dream. I'm very keen to have a small gap between them and my partner wants to start trying sometime between March and July (I'd be trying right now if he'd come around to it lol).

He's also not opposed to an oops or just leaving it "to fate". That's how #1 came around. We never do it on any sort of birth control, but usually he will pull out beforehand. On boxing day we decided to do a one off without pulling out. Now I'm not sure when I'm due my next period as I got my period back on the 26th Nov-1st December, but then I also had a period on 11-14th December. I'm not sure when I'm due to ovulate because of this, but multiple apps have worked it out to be 27-28th December. And of course we "tried" on the 26th.

My partner is more leaning towards not wanting anything to come from this one - he feels it's too soon and 2 under 1 (albeit for a month) would be a massive handful, on the other hand he'd love the baby regardless.

I'm so so hopeful for something to amount from it, I've ordered some early tests and clear blue says the earliest I can test is the 3rd of January. I have been having some early pregnancy symptoms but I don't know if I'm just so hopeful that I'm imagining them.

I never thought I'd be in a TTC group but here we are.

Sending baby dust to all you amazing women ❤️