Sex is unenjoyable :(

I feel like I’m the only person that has come to find sex very unenjoyable. It’s just so casual these days that there is no meaning behind it anymore (which I hate) and I haven’t been getting pleasure from it lately. I always tear. I’ve never been able to cum from it. It just doesn’t feel good to me anymore. I know it’s just some problems that I need to fix on my own I just don’t know how. Does anyone else have this problem?